There can never be enough posts on the value of empowering black children (especially girls) to embrace the unique beauty of their hair. Within the black community, there is a rich tapestry of hair textures. Understanding and appreciating each unique texture is key to proper hair care. As parents (moms) and role models, it is crucial that we teach our little black daughters to love and embrace their hair texture.
This teaching can be done through exposing them to dolls with similar hair textures; reading relevant children’s books or proudly modeling our own natural hair in all its glory. In this way, we empower and instil in them the confidence to embrace their unique beauty. We must emphasize that their hair is magical – their crown, their pride, and inherently beautiful just as it is.
My Experience
Blessed with the birth of my daughter, I saw the opportunity to nurture and groom her hair. However, following her first birthday, her dad and I made the decision to cut her hair to encourage a more even growth. I embarked on the discovery of ways to minimize pain and discomfort during combing and braiding/styling her hair. Ultimately, I found solace in Cantu Leave-in Conditioner for its softening properties. Now, two and a half years later, I am pleased with the progress her hair has made, and she loves it just as much as I do.
While there are options like salon visits, I choose to style my daughter’s hair myself. Beyond cost considerations, it’s a bonding experience for us. It fosters moments of connection and conversation that enrich her vocabulary and speech development. Watching her embrace her black girl hair with love and confidence fills me with so much joy. My daughter’s hair anthem is Gracie’s Corner’s “I love my hair”. It is very relatable for little black children.
Biblical Insight on Hair
“… but if a woman has long hair, it is a glory to her; for her long hair is given to her for a covering”.
In brief, irrespective of cultural or religious beliefs, the passage speaks to the intrinsic significance of a woman’s hair. It describes her hair as a symbol of glory/honour, embodying her inner beauty and acting as her glory and her covering (her crown). This underscores the importance of a woman maintaining her hair as a reflection of her feminine essence.
Social Media Hair Empowerment
In today’s digital age, there’s an abundance of resources and tutorials for styling young black girls’ hair. From adding beads for extra flair to experimenting with braids, each hairstyle becomes a canvas for self-expression and joy. Personally, I find inspiration from hairstylists like Olivia Chukwu on YouTube and other social media platforms. Her styles are not only easy and cute for little black girls but also empowering on the natural hair front.
Conclusion
Often, the simple act of flaunting a new hairstyle can be overlooked in its significance. It is an opportunity to boost confidence, instil resilience, and make little/young girls feel incredible. Whether it’s embracing natural curls or trying out different looks, each hairstyle is a unique expression of beauty and identity. Let’s seize every chance to teach our daughters to embrace and celebrate their hair, nurturing both their inner selves and outer appearance.
Action Point
Take a moment to reflect on your perception of your daughter’s hair.
Are you inclined to trim or maintain it? Whatever your choice, let it be guided by moments of hair empowerment, fostering a sense of pride and confidence in your daughter’s journey with her hair.